But what actually are the reasons for breaking up?
In this busy world the husband and wife who are working, are not finding at least few minutes to talk to each other. This is weakening the bond between the both and leading to 'Divorce'. There are also several other reasons like ego, inferiority complex and attitude.
Then how to stop a break up?
We may have gone through many books on how to prevent divorce. The summary of all such books is the same that is do not go for a divorce. A writer says "Try to avoid divorce to the maximum possible extent". In this regard he proposed 6 solutions to prevent divorce which will help in strengthening the bond between a husband and a wife.
1.Unwanted Issues:- Well, every one knows where actually the quarrel begins. Getting disappointed for small issues, expressing anger with out any reason, insulting and neglecting each other are some of the reasons. But if we sit calmly have a chat then we may feel like the reason for which we are fighting is baseless rather useless.
2.Listen to Each Other:- Talking with each other bridges the gap between the two. Talking in the sense is to know each others thoughts, feelings and emotions. Because "our dear ones are the only one who take care about our future".
3.Be like friends:- Behave like a husband and a wife when you are speaking to a third person but be like friends by sharing your feelings and emotions without hiding anything. After all, it is you who live together till the end.
4.Disappointments and Dissatisfactions:- The climate in this world is not the same all the time. In the same way the atmosphere at our home may not be the same. Always there are some or the other kind of disappointments and dissatisfactions, getting along with all these will make a relation to cherish for a long time.
5.Personal Neatness:- The attraction between a couple remains for a long time if they have fair thoughts, sweet words, clean clothes, good habits and many other such reasons.
6.Honesty and Trust:- A healthy relation between a husband and a wife exists only when they are honest in their relation and have trust in each other.
If one you are at fault, accept it! Don't poke him for the mistake committed for their lifetime. If not, this may end up the relation to break up.
According to an Indian writer "Problems arise when we cannot get along with them". Finally, I want to say that there might be many ups and downs in our life but getting along with them will make the relation long living and cherished.